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Lesson 174 -
Sex and Sambhavi (Audio)
From: Yogani
Date: Tue Apr 27, 2004 11:44am
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This Discussion?"
Q: As I practice Yoga
following your guidance, some additional questions come up regarding certain
matters. I was hoping you could relate to a few of them:
1. Sexual arousal during
meditation - During meditation and Pranayama I experience great sexual
arousal. I know this is a usual symptom, but I believe I experience it in a
rather extreme way: the sensations are very strong at times, and moreover -
at times I even experience ejaculations during meditations (I do not notice
it while it happens, only after the session is over). I don't even practice
Siddhasana yet - it simply happens during following the mantra. Isn't it a
horrible waste of Prana? Is there any recommended way to avoid it?
2. Crossing eyes during
Sambhavi - the act of directing the eyes towards the point between the
eyebrows quite worries me. Obviously, this is not a natural activity for the
eyes, and is (even when done gently) very straining and stressing for them,
especially considering the effect of accumulating effort during long
periods. Isn't it hazardous to the functioning of the eyes? Couldn't it
affect one's eyesight?
A: Actually, sexual
arousal is not a common symptom during meditation and spinal breathing
without siddhasana. It is a sign of good things happening though, as it is
an advanced experience of purification. The emissions will not last, so
don't be overly concerned about them. Consider it to be a stage, like wet
dreams. In this case, wet spiritual dreams as you travel through a second
puberty of the spiritual variety. Genital arousal and emissions will stop as
the obstructions come out and normal ecstatic functioning of your lower
centers in conjunction with your higher ones evolves.
When you do get into siddhasana, it will be more
of a help than an aggravation to the situation. First of all, it will
gradually coax your sexual energy inward and higher, and the tendency to go
down with the energy will become much less. Secondly, siddhasana can be used
to block emissions. When the heel is properly and comfortably placed in the
soft area behind the pubic bone, the urethra can be blocked by leaning
forward slightly. Not that saving a few emissions is so crucial, but the
ability is there in siddhasana and can be used for that as desired. Before
you bombard me with questions on that one, please go and read the tantra
group lessons if you have not already. The link is near the top of the list
in the links section. There you will find detailed lessons covering the
management of sexual energy in relation to yoga, with more lessons and
additional methods coming.
Regarding sambhavi, all
practices we undertake have a "clunky" stage in the beginning, and any of
the practices might seem a bit unnatural starting out. As they settle in,
that perception changes. As their role in purifying and stimulating the
opening of higher experiences in the nervous system occurs, the idea of
unnaturalness goes by the wayside. Then we know that the practices are doing
exactly as they are supposed to -- bringing up natural spiritual abilities
contained within our nervous system. By the time it gets to that point, the
practices are as natural as breathing, because we immediately experience
bliss and ecstasy from their use. The cause and effect of them in our
nervous system becomes an integral and automatic part of our neuro-biological
functioning.
Don't force sambhavi. Be very easy about
directing your eyes, favoring the sensation created by the slight furrowing
of the brow at the point between the eyebrows. In time it becomes
pleasurable and then easily becomes automatic. Your eyesight is not at risk.
Thousands of yogis, sages, and saints have been using sambhavi for thousands
of years without negative effects. Just the opposite; sambhavi opens our
inner sight, expanding our vision through our increasingly ecstatic nervous
system to encompass the cosmos. You may want to check a later lesson on
doing sambhavi (#131) which gives further detail on
the technique.
Interestingly, your question on sambhavi is
related to your question on sexual arousal. The reason I say this is because
the rise of a direct sexual connection between the physical brain and the
lower centers is how the awakening of the third eye and sushumna (spinal
nerve) is experienced. Sambhavi is one of the key players in this, along
with spinal breathing, mulabandha, siddhasana, kechari and kumbhaka, plus a
few others. Sambhavi in one form or another is prominent in all of the
spiritual traditions. When the third eye/sushumna is awakened, sambhavi
becomes a primary means for promoting "ecstatic conductivity" at will in the
nervous system (see recent lesson #169 on ecstatic
conductivity). A simple intention with the eyes is enough to produce waves
of ecstasy in the nervous system of the yogi and yogini. What a treasure
sambhavi is.
When the conductivity begins to come up by all
the means mentioned, the sexual implications are unmistakable. From there it
evolves from sexually erotic to spiritually ecstatic. The two experiences
are related, being different expressions of sexual energy evolving higher in
our nervous system.
You are having some
shades of this already from meditation and spinal breathing only, and no
doubt your fledgling sambhavi is getting into the act too. It is a sign of
good things to come. Don't worry, everything will work out fine. There is
nothing to fear.
The guru is in you.
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