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wakeupneo
USA
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 Posted - Dec 26 2009 : 01:20:29 AM
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The past few months I've taken some time away from school and work to sit and practice my sadhanas. It was more or less zen type meditations, abiding in pure consiousness and such. Recently I started to incorporate a little kundalini yoga into the mix as I felt the need to circulate my energies as they felt stagnated.
The kundalini yoga practice makes me feel amazing! Lately, I started getting sensations in my neather regions, mainly rumbling during meditation in my root chakra. Almost feeling like it was going to burst. It's happened a few times.
I haven't been very active in sexual activity. Mainly because...well honestly I just don't care. It's not really on my list of priorities, I've been completely wrapped up in practice. Recently she gave me an ultimatum that essentially she has sexual needs that need to be met, yada, yada...
Well we had sex, I ejaculated... and it didn't feel right. Feel depleted, felt like I definately lost some potency. I had a difficult time retaining semen as it is, let alone living a lifestyle in which I never lose it.
Nonetheless, I'm committed to learning how to do this. I really want this and no longer want to lose any semen. I've searched online and couldn't really find any techniques in which I can retain it. The ones that I did find seemed awefully complicated and time consuming.
Wondering if someone could direct me. Is there any practical, simple means for retaining semen? What can I do to not lose it?
Thank you,
Love,
J |
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manigma
India
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Posted - Dec 26 2009 : 07:06:25 AM
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quote:
Originally posted by wakeupneo
Love,
J
That's it. 'Love' when you have sex and it will be impossible to ejac. |
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Christi
United Kingdom
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Posted - Dec 26 2009 : 12:19:00 PM
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Hi Wakeupneo,
welcome to the forum.
If you check out the tantra lessons on this site it is all about how to have sex without ejaculation, and how that can help you move into divine consciousness:
http://www.aypsite.org/TantraDirectory.html
Your partner might be interested too. 
Christi |
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omarkaya
Spain
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Posted - Jan 04 2010 : 05:02:35 AM
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| hello,unless you have mastered vajroli and mulabandha it will be impossible for you to not to ejaculate,to master vajroli and mulabandha needs years of hard practice, but you can deal with your partner and stop before it comes.ujayi pranayam makes love longer and if you perform udiyana bandha some time before you feel to explote, youl prolong the fun much more.good luck. |
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misslavender
Philippines
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Posted - Feb 21 2010 : 12:41:22 PM
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| Hi sorry if I sound naive or something. I just wonder if you refer "she" to your thing calling for the needs to be met, or "she" for someone special you have. In case "she" is a person, isn't it fair to ejaculate when you do sex because it's part of the "ritual". It's the climax of your union. :) |
Edited by - misslavender on Feb 21 2010 12:50:05 PM |
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Could someone please help me?
