For a couple of weeks now, I have been doing Samyama on few sutras and I start with Love. I do feel that there is increased connectivity towards my everyday friends/family and people in general.
But the other thing I noticed is that there is an increased sexual functionality too. The two feelings seem to blend in together and there are situations when one or the other domintates your being and it seems to come in cycles too.
what would be the best way to deal with this phenomenon.
The sutra of "love" is intimately connected with the heart chakra and will cause it to open. As the heart chakra begins to open, it creates a direct pull on the kundalini shakti from the muladhara upwards. In the beginning this pull is most noticable in the lower two chakras and is experienced as increased sexual energy. There is little you can do about this except to bear with the process.
Over time, kundalini expands upwards and outwards, and the overwhelming symptoms change. Gradually it becomes more about ecstasy than sexual energy- although the body will still be in a permanently organsmic state. The heart also will come to the fore, with the movement of divine love being the dominant force in all interactions.