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wivked
Azerbaijan
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 Posted - Jun 20 2009 : 06:40:47 AM
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Hi
I dont want to have sex/mastrubation anymore for a period.
Like 3 months, because i want to have more energy rather
then using the hold back method. I also think you can better
meditate and letting the kundalini rise up.
So my question is: Is there a method/practice where you can let this
sexual desire go away?
And one of my experience is when you ejaculate there is always
much female energy left. No interest in porn, thinking why was this
so exciting..
thanks.. |
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divinefurball
USA
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Posted - Jun 20 2009 : 7:11:04 PM
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Hi wivked, I think that the solution is not making the "sexual desire go away," but getting used to strong levels of extended arousal as a satisfaction in themselves - and not a cause for release. Perhaps think of the arousals as the satisfactions, then this energy will - may become - naturally expressed as loving kindness; as your cup runneth over with them. All The Best, dfb
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wivked
Azerbaijan
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Posted - Jun 21 2009 : 06:50:25 AM
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Thank you for your reply..
I understand what you mean, by getting used to the strong levels of extended arousal. But it would take some time to getting used to those
strong levels of energies.
wivked. |
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divinefurball
USA
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Posted - Jun 21 2009 : 07:32:53 AM
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Hi wivked, yes, you are right it can take some time, but you can do it, and when the time is right to have sex again, you will find your endurance greatly enhanced. Plus, part of the point of periods of retention is exactly getting used to and cultivating this, so when kundalini does start to rise you will not feel the need to discharge the bliss.
All The Best, dfb |
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sushman
India
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Posted - Jun 22 2009 : 1:06:12 PM
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Wivked,
if there is/was method to get rid of sexual desire, most yogis would have chosen it 
i think if we have unfulfilled sexual desire (karma from past lives), then we can't get rid of it unless we reach a state where we have fulfilled it or transcended it. This may take several life times or rigorous meditation regime during this life time.
The only alternative is grace from a spiritual guru who can destroy the seed of the desire.
BTW, if you ever come across a technique to rid of the sexual desire, pls share it in the forum.
Most of us would be very interested |
Edited by - sushman on Jun 22 2009 1:18:31 PM |
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