kind of weird to tell guys this, but if there is a place where we are accepted for telling intamate secrets, i guess it is here basically pretty simple. For men, try exploring yourself with the lightest of touch possible, like a feathers touch but with your hands, explore all around. Give it a shot and see what happens. well not a shot, as we want to cultivate the energy. we are love, we are peace, we are joy we are one brother neil