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anthony574
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 Posted - May 01 2007 : 3:26:57 PM
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Hello.
I am 19 years old and I am relatively new to AYP. Most of my efforts are towards meditation, a bit of pranayama and asanas...but obviously the idea of tantric sex and beign able to experience more subtle and meaningful inner orgasms interests me...a lot, really.
I have read books and am familiar with the basic prinicples of tantric sex, but I do not feel comfortable right now turning sex into a systematic seqeunce of PC pumps, breathing, whatever else and I simply try to have faith that through meditation and increased body/pranic awareness these things will come naturally.
In accordance with my faith, I discontinued ejaculating and didn't find it to be too difficult. I also stopped masturbating but then got back into it but from a "practicing" perspective, however, I realized after some time that I was simply doing the equivalent of watching mental pornography and having dry orgasms with the perineum press.
This brings me to my question: I understand the goal is to stay ahead of orgasm and not to have to employ the perineum press or any blocking mechanisms, however, I am not perfect at this point and sometimes do have to resort, and often some semen leaks out. Not by any means as much as a normal ejaculation, but it is some. I worry because I have not experienced any pranic sensations in my 3 weeks of practice of meditation, pranayama, ect and I worry this may be the culprit. I hear that the younger you are the faster your body regenerates energy from semen loss and I am wondering if it is OK for me to ejaculate every once in a while to satisfy my girlfriend who is convinced I am not truly enjoying sex, or if occasional leakage is detrimental.
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