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joyel
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 Posted - Jul 15 2011 : 4:29:50 PM
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namaste all....i am new here....i have a question....when my boyfriend comes to visit...i somehow take on his energy....and i cannot sleep that night....he has active kundalini...does anyone know how to prevent this, or drain the excess so i can sleep at night....thank you
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yogesh
USA
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Posted - Jul 15 2011 : 9:04:20 PM
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bewell
1275 Posts |
Posted - Jul 16 2011 : 08:45:25 AM
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quote:
Originally posted by joyel
i somehow take on his energy....and i cannot sleep that night....he has active kundalini...
Namaste Joyel,
Welcome to the AYP Forum, where the quality of the responses to various questions will vary widely.
I do not know how to prevent taking on your partner's energy. I even doubt it will be possible to prevent it. My suggestion is to learn to accept and even enjoy the energy. Here at AYP we generally think that such energy is a welcome and a positive force when received in a well of inner silence. To cultivate such inner silence we practice daily Deep Meditation (See Main Lessons on the left of this page).
As to how to deal with staying awake in the night, my suggestion, based on what I do, is to stay reclined in a sleeplike positions and relax.
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joyel
USA
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Posted - Jul 16 2011 : 12:23:52 PM
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| thank you.....i will relax and breath through the night....it seems to be the only way. i can sleep on the nights when i don't see him....so i do get sleep. when i see him...it feels like i am plugged into an electric current, my hands and feet get hot and i don't sleep. more meditation..that is always the answer...again...thank you, joyel |
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Etherfish
USA
3615 Posts |
Posted - Jul 16 2011 : 2:33:21 PM
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| What works for me is over the counter "sleep aids" that have doxylamine succinate. |
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xir
Ireland
25 Posts |
Posted - Jul 16 2011 : 5:48:11 PM
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joyel
USA
5 Posts |
Posted - Jul 17 2011 : 09:47:13 AM
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| yes....we usually do |
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showup
USA
47 Posts |
Posted - Aug 04 2011 : 1:26:00 PM
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| The AYP DM should calm down your energy...if you perform it after your energizing process. |
Edited by - showup on Aug 04 2011 1:33:13 PM |
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maheswari
Lebanon
2516 Posts |
Posted - Aug 04 2011 : 1:54:11 PM
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is it recommended to do DM (or any kind of meditation) after sex ? or it is not a good option?
i always receive conflicting answers to that question.....
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Radharani
USA
843 Posts |
Posted - Aug 05 2011 : 02:14:21 AM
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Meditation after sex? is this a trick question?  |
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maheswari
Lebanon
2516 Posts |
Posted - Aug 05 2011 : 03:14:34 AM
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Osho recommends meditation after sex
other folks do not saying it is harmful! |
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showup
USA
47 Posts |
Posted - Aug 05 2011 : 12:28:08 PM
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quote:
Originally posted by maheswari
is it recommended to do DM (or any kind of meditation) after sex ?
Well, it depends on how good your body handles the energy or how good you can channel the energy into naadies. If the body is loaded with too much of energy it is a good idea to go for a DM. Having more energy is dangerous to one self as well as others unless otherwise it is properly channeled. If it is not done, it in fact harms the concern person and others. I came across a situation in which an energized person woke up early in the morning himself woke up others whom he thought of or interacted with (during the day time). This became a big problem for his neighbors of the concerned as none of them were able to sleep after 4.30 AM in the morning...So, a DM is a must if the energy level is too high irrespective of the time and situation. |
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Radharani
USA
843 Posts |
Posted - Aug 05 2011 : 5:28:27 PM
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Originally posted by maheswari
Osho recommends meditation after sex
other folks do not saying it is harmful!
If it is "harmful" I guess I am in big trouble, then. oh well, too late.  |
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maheswari
Lebanon
2516 Posts |
Posted - Aug 06 2011 : 02:38:17 AM
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personally my inner guru tells me it is good to meditate after sex |
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vijikr
United Arab Emirates
413 Posts |
Posted - Aug 06 2011 : 03:04:02 AM
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| Yes I too think it does help meditating after sex but then again it varies from person to person some might end up dozing off... |
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crazymandrew
USA
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Posted - Aug 08 2011 : 05:19:07 AM
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| Think "love, love love". If you are sensitive to someone else's energy you can easily convert it into positive energy. Direct it at the person, it can be really fun was you get the hang of it. The person usually sends positive waves back, it feels really really good. In my experience everyone's energy has a unique character to it. |
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maheswari
Lebanon
2516 Posts |
Posted - Aug 08 2011 : 05:48:16 AM
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Think "love, love love".
made me remember the lyrics of Queen and David Bowie ...in Under Pressure..the lyrics go like that :
Love love love love love
Insanity laughs under pressure we're breaking
Can't we give ourselves one more chance
Why can't we give love that one more chance
'Cause love's such an old fashioned word
And love dares you to care for...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yNxU...ture=related |
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joyel
USA
5 Posts |
Posted - Aug 12 2011 : 9:26:43 PM
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| thank you all for replies......what is DM? |
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Shanti
USA
4854 Posts |
Posted - Aug 12 2011 : 9:29:40 PM
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Originally posted by joyel
what is DM?
Deep meditation : http://www.aypsite.org/13.html
Sometimes we don't realize we are using abbreviations that many may not get. Sorry about that.
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joyel
USA
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Posted - Aug 12 2011 : 10:18:08 PM
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| sorry for the question...i did search and found deep meditation...I Am.....ready to try anything, thanks |
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Phaedris
USA
21 Posts |
Posted - Aug 15 2011 : 11:13:11 PM
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| I've found that sleeping on the carpeted floor with just a thin mat underneath is often grounding enough to allow me to sleep. |
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