I am confused about how to go about employing tantric methods.. My partner is not interested in tantra (however, he naturally does use the holdback method out of respect for me to enjoy sex longer- but he eventually reaches orgasm after some time), so what do I do? Do I just try not to have an orgasm during sex? Is that all I do?? Is there something more I can do or anything else I can try?? Any advice???
hi Bella, The problem you face with your partner is very much the norm.Tantra is not everyone's calling.I would suggest that you concentrate on the main right handed practices which are most important anyway.Left handed (sexual) tecniques require a lot of practice and takes years to perfect.so be patient with your partner. Be natural during sex.I think its unwise to force anything so i wouldnt recommend that you try to avoid an orgasm.By and By as your experiences deepen i think you will automatically transcend these problems.
Enjoy the process dont worry about the end results.
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Posted - Nov 15 2009 : 9:46:46 PM
