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CarsonZi
Canada
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 Posted - Nov 04 2008 : 1:08:13 PM
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Namaste Friends,
Just wanted to see if anyone else out there actively practicing AYP tantra has had an experience similar to one I had last evening. I hope that what I am about to say is not to x-rated and if it is, Moderators, please feel free to let me know I need to rephrase...thanks.
My wife an I had a bit of a tantric love making session last night. And at one point I was pleasuring her orally....This led up to a massive orgasm for her, but as she started having said orgasm, I started to have an orgasm! Absolutely out of nowhere too! I had not been being touched by either me OR her for quite some time, and I definitely was nowhere near orgasm. But as her orgasm built up stronger and stronger, so did mine. My muscles tensed, huge shivers and electrical rushes (that she said she felt too, which is odd, she'd never felt that before she said after) ran through my whole body, and I had to quickly block ejaculation or it would have been over for sure. So bascially I went from not being touched and from only touching my wife, (for about ten minutes or so) to having one of the most intense orgasms of my life in a matter of twenty seconds. Never had this happen before. Any thoughts would be gladly appreciated.
Love,
Carson
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Edited by - CarsonZi on Nov 04 2008 1:08:54 PM |
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emc
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Posted - Nov 04 2008 : 1:21:24 PM
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Consiousness, emptiness, stillness - the male principle - holds everything in it, right? Everything takes place in Nothing. Man is the essence of this. Woman is the essence of everything, she is movement. When man and woman meet in tantric lovemaking and the man is EMPTY enough, he will be able to feel and sensate The Woman inside of him.  He will be the screen on which movement takes place and find that HIS enjoyment is feeling HER when she moves! Without the female principle - Her - He would not be able to sense anything, so he is fully dependent on HER in order to perceive anything.
It is a beautiful experience, Carson!
At the retreat I started dancing one evening in front of the Man I was with. He was in awe when he felt my dance inside of him... and I loved dancing... for HIM... consciousness... not the person. I loved to give, and give and give to Him... so that he could know himself! The Yang would not know himself without his constant reflection of Yin... |
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CarsonZi
Canada
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Posted - Nov 04 2008 : 1:27:39 PM
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Wow....Sounds like you really had an awesome time in Fiji. Kinda a little jealous. (only a little, haha) I kinda had an idea of what you are saying from reading some tantric "scriptures", but always kinda assumed that both partners would have to be actively practicing tantra for there to be any real connection like this....And my wife is not practicing yoga or tantra or anything of the sort. (trying not to pressure her and just live by example right now) She is not trying to cultivate and preserve the sexual essences like I am, and is really just in it for the pleasure aspect I'm sure, and I always thought that tantric sex requires two actively participating partners. It seems not quite so. Thanks for your reply.
Love,
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Edited by - CarsonZi on Nov 04 2008 1:30:45 PM |
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kitso
United Kingdom
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Posted - Nov 04 2008 : 2:04:58 PM
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Thanks for posting, you two, I loved reading about such a beautiful experience,Carson, and understanding about it, emc.
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emc
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Posted - Nov 04 2008 : 9:42:10 PM
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| To be able to reach the higher realms I'd say both has to be pretty awake, but while climbing up the tantric ladder many experiences are possible on the way... |
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mikkiji
USA
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Posted - Nov 05 2008 : 08:59:34 AM
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Opening this gateway to bliss through total devotion to one's beloved should not come as a surprise. After all, this is the core of Bhakti--devotional purity, the giver giving without expectation of receiving. You have opened this door and let in the light, which is the light of divinity, just as if you were devoted to god--your beloved is your personal goddess at that moment, and your devotional worship of her allows the both of you to experience the illumination of her unbounded inner nature. Of course you get to join her! That's the whole point! It becomes not the bliss of only one, but the union of two joined into one, and therefore a vision of the Unity of Divinity, a peek into the godhead, as it were--which is, in this instance, made possible largely through the unifying and elevating power of your love and devotion to her and to the divine nature in her. Worship of HER divine inner Being also illuminates YOURS! You have won the bonus round!!! Happy Camping, my friends...
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Christi
United Kingdom
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Posted - Nov 05 2008 : 09:15:33 AM
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Hi Carson,
This is possible for both men and women to experience as they progress on the path. It's caused by increased empathy due to the opening and purification of the subtle nervous system.
You might be interested in this thread which is about the same thing happening on the level of the heart:
http://www.aypsite.org/forum/topic....ID=2412#2412
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Scott
USA
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Posted - Nov 05 2008 : 10:21:55 AM
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| TOTALLY AWESOME!!! Congrats Carson. Great experience. |
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CarsonZi
Canada
3189 Posts |
Posted - Nov 05 2008 : 10:58:51 AM
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Thanks Everyone...
emc....so it is not possible for me to progress to the higher realms of tantra without a "tantric" partner to practice with? Is that what you are saying? That would be a little disappointing in my case
Micheal....yes, this seems to be exactly what happened. I wasn't thinking about myself in any way at the time, and I think that is what made MY orgasm so shocking...it was the LAST thing on my mind at the time. I know it shouldn't have been that much of a surprise, and next time it probably won't be, but I really just wasn't ready for that....in a good way. On a side note...are you are writer perhaps? Everything you write seems so...eloquent and like it's right out of a book or something. In a good way of course.
Christi....thanks for the link. I've read sections of this thread before but I will make a specific point to read it all now. Thanks.
Love,
Carson
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