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snatha
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 Posted - Nov 02 2008 : 10:07:58 AM
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Hari OM
Hi Everybody
After studing the tantric sex given here.I actually didn't understand the bolcking technique described here properly but i understood that sperm retention is essiontial for spirutual growth.
actually i had been trying swami sivananda bramhacharya concepts.and agree with his every concepts but i could not follow those concepts completely.as I had started to masturbate many years before it.I normally try to just ejacuvate and then i feel low energy ,feel guilty,feel nervous.but after 2 days i would be able to meditate very powerfully,easily control myself.no intrest in girls.but suddenly within a week or two then feeling for masturbatin actually the feeling for ejacuvation will strong so i used feel it better to ejacuvate.but swami sivananda and many others should that it was
wrong.we must in perfect bramhachrya for spiritual path.
but it was very difficult for me to follow.
then yogani and the many people here have shown that there is a definte improvemnt in the life of a person who can control the ejacuvation.so it concludes that the ejacuvation part must be shunned for improvement in spiritual path Right.
Yes that fine, now after practising kechari mudra which was boon from AYP,good amount of sprem retention by blocking tecqniques(Mentally and little physically), for about 4-5 months .
Naturally the energy levels are very high comparetively and all postive aspects have improved.
Now the one thing is wanted to stress here is that It is not just the power or bhakti has incresed but the attraction towards girls has increased to that extent that I would not have been imagined.
Before i was not at all liked to see girls and i had never seen them only in the internet thats all.
but now when ever a girl comes in my sight I am not able to resist her.I enjoy her whole body.her eyes her face is the best of it.Just for twice I was lucky to see into a girl for about 1 hour which i felt of immense pleasure.
So I feel that if sprem retention is done it is not only good for spiritual path but even for sextual pleasures / fantasies.
So what do u feel Am I right or Wrong?
Please answer so that we can come to a conclusion
Jai sri Krishna
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slenten
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Posted - Nov 06 2008 : 11:53:57 AM
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snatha,
Swami J. has suggested that bramacharia was a way to
conserve energy for spiritual training when food was scarce. If food
is plentiful bramacharia is less critical.
Sivananda's methods are for renunciates who have also controlled
the senses and the mind, but more importantly, are able to dissipate the energy of sexual thoughts and urges ahead of action or fantasy.
Eventually, the mind is won
and the energy is transmuted to spiritual use. Sex can still
be enjoyed but it is now chosen rather than habitual.
Unfortuately, his views are tainted with the misogyny and dogma of the Brahmin caste.
The result is that you have ended up with a trantric practice full of guilt and confusion.
Enjoy sex, use it for spiritual education, it can complement your practices harmoniously.
Fall in love with a girl and have lots of spiritualized sex with
and without retention but keep practicing control without
guilt. Most importantly, keep up your spiritual disciplines. Eventually,
you will realize a higher bliss than sexual union and
the sex preoccupation will subside.
Enjoy your body and its part in spirituality.
slenten.
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snatha
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Posted - Nov 07 2008 : 07:08:31 AM
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quote:
Originally posted by slenten
snatha,
Swami J. has suggested that bramacharia was a way to
Hari OM
Hi slenten
that was a good reply.
I shall tell what happened recently
I had gone to my cousin's marriage to dhamarsthala.I was very much awaiting to see the bridegroom.after waiting for about 16 hrs i could see her in the marriage hall.she was very beautiful.i could not resist from seeing her face to face.she was little afraid.
and so on when i used to get the chance to see her i used to see her.
This was actually a long back experince to me .to say correctly before the start of masturbation.and sometimes when their was a long gap in masturbation.
then time went on they got married still i didn't feel guilt in seeing her.even though the bride is very close to me.
then when we were returnig back their in the bus they were in the front seat of mine.then suddenly i started remembering something.that the bridegroom is actualy the girl whom i had loved very deeply just few yrs back. i was very close to her might be just 1-2 weeks.i was just to propose her but at that time i could not.then i could not meet her at all i don't know why?
then sudeenly i started experinceing viyog of her.i don't know how to tell it.
and now all the fantasies have ended i am not able to see anyother girl.it is as if i have no feeling for other girl.i am only seeing her only that girl.and asking god for that how did such a situation came in my life.now i have decided that i won't see any porn movies. nor try to see anyother girl.i shall go into spirutial path deeply.I feel the time has come.i have been weeping in the mind from that time.
Now actually i wnated to tell that i belive that i forget that girl because of mastubation(leting the sperm out).now that after tantric masturbation(with sperm retention) i have rembered all these thing not just that I am with fullfeelings for her.
now dosen't this show that the sperm retention has improved my feelings.
so i belive that all the love making,sex or intercourse must be with sperm retention as it is actually better that ejacuvation.
the gulit feeling is of a low degree(Almost nil) when i masturebate with sperm retention.
please feel free to tell u r opinoin.
it is very useful.let us come to conclusion in this point.it is very important
Jai shri Krishna
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