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Gnosis0
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 Posted - Jan 08 2015 : 2:52:04 PM
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Dear exprienced Tantric practioners,
Please forgive the slightly misleading title, but I would greatly appreciate some help.
I am a late 20s male and serious Zen student of some six years. About a year and a half ago, I have started to experience what we call "kensho" or enlightenment experiences. This has been the happiest thing I could possibly hope for except it appears to have negatively affected my sex life. There is more energy in my body, and I attribute it to having now become frequently premature in bed. I don't know what to do about this exactly which is why I'm here.
I'm sure this is not so unusual. Can I use this greater energy and sense of awareness to bolster my sex life and last longer (even longer than before) because I get the sense that this is something Tantric practices offer? Currently it only seems to be helping me be quicker. In order not to be premature, I have sometimes drained myself through masturbating a lot beforehand. There has to be a better way surely?
Can you help? Thanks very much |
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jusmail
India
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Posted - Jan 08 2015 : 8:53:47 PM
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Anima
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Posted - Jan 08 2015 : 11:32:29 PM
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Namaste, Gnosis,
It's very good to hear of your benefits! Why is sexual performance important to you? Do you have a partner with whom you wish to grow more intimate? The tantra lessons are indeed a good resource, as is Yogani's book on tantra--I recommend them if you are interested.
I'm not enlightened, and I barely care about sex after a good meal. Libido fluctuates throughout times in our lives. That's natural. So maybe nothing to worry about 
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Gnosis0
United Kingdom
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Posted - Jan 09 2015 : 06:28:17 AM
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Thank you for your replies. :) Yes, I'll be checking out the lessons on this site.
I have a partner and it's for that reason. She says it's not a problem for her but it has affected my confidence with sex, and it would always be nice to have more time to enjoy things if you know what I mean. |
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