I was practicing solo tantra today and accidently slipped over into ejaculation of which I managed to block using a strong kegel. In the past I have managed to block manually using the finger press but was wondering is any method preffered either blocking with kegel or finger press?
Hey Ben. Both methods work by the same mechanics inside the body : compressing the urethra. Blocking method compresses it with external manual pressure. Kegel squeeze compresses it by flexing an internal muscle which presses up against it. Whichever way you like, they both block the urethra and redirect semen to the bladder. Kegel flex would obviously work better during sex, whereas manual blocking might be more reliable during solo.
you can control also with Mantak Chia´s methods in his book of healing love for men.For getting control over the tip of the penis - yogis are even able drawing lost semen back presumably the urethrea opening or emptying a glass wih liquids - you use urinating standing on the tips of the toes pressing the buttocks together. So you can determine the dosis of urine leaving your body. You have more unconsciously such pressing situations during intercourse and orgasm for spitting the semen where the toes are often cramping. You can relax and control by moving some toes. Combining the breath with these physical exercises by breathing the penis and testicles backwards with the inhale means the beginning of energy work and more mental than physical control needing at last no longer a pressing in the perineum by the finger or the heel of the foot for putting the semen in the bladder or even grab the testicles by twisting them for that purpose.
You learn to feel and manipulate consciously the chi or prana as different from the magnetic and lifeforce of the sexual energy and liquids called jing energy and separate the soul and astral level from it. This means also that the mere physical orgasm and loss of semen becomes superfluos as its energy is taken from him for a free play of energy.
If you meet Tibetan Lamas you may get a prickling in the sexual region and women get so attractive and beautiful that you cannot stop your desire. But the energy and urgent feeling is taken from this region up to the head and lama´s energy field.
The socalled power lock squeezes also the anus for getting control. By its ring muscles you can direct to different regions of the body on the level of energy work. Orgasmic upward draw and breathing and taking the energies upwards into the kidneys are further means of keeping control.
Blocking method
Posted - Apr 28 2012 : 1:13:22 PM
