over the years yoga practices helped me to detach from practically eveything this feeling of events sliding is very much felt at my job...(office job and teaching asanas)...it is just a flow...i am not doing anything...i dont expect anything...i quickly forget what "i" did...i have a very very short memory at work ...like a mechanical robot i dont know how it is moving,,but it is moving with awareness of each moment...living each moment with awarness but quikly without effort dropping it ...is is already in the dead past... on the personal level concening family issues....only this year it became like my work...doing duties with detachment...even when my father passed away....it was also like a flow on the intimate level....it is not done 100 percent yet...but there is a huge improvement... . like water drops sliding on a lotus flower without affecting it....all is effortlessly sliding... it feels so good....