I'm very new to tantric sex, and have only been practising it for about 2 months.
In attempting to be multi-orgasmic, I have trained myself to prevent ejaculation and have a full orgasm. But the refractory period remains. If I have a half-orgasm (is there a better term for that?), I can prevent ejaculation, and the refractory period, and my level of excitement becomes reduced. The problem is that I have to be able to balance and make sure it is only a half orgasm. Otherwise, I get the refractory period.
So is there a way to have the full orgasm, no ejaculation but aslo no refractory period? What should I change? At the moment, I'm using my PC muscles to stop ejaculation.
Prevention of ejaculation AND refractory period
Posted - Sep 03 2010 : 04:49:43 AM
