There is no 'me' and 'people', let alone 'my people'..
there is Love. And Love permeates everything. I used to judge certain persons as "unloving".. Slap in the face! and Humility! Each and every being has Love. There is no "Ideal" Love. There is no "Perfection" to be reached. No time to loose in fantasies. People have what they have, they know what they know, they ignore what they ignore.. Who AM I to teach? Who AM I to create values and criterions in the name of "purity", or "Love"?
As long as i believe the separation from the Whole to be true, i will suffer and consider myself as a martyr, a victim.
No more victimization. Time for authenticity and nakedness, no compromising of any kind anymore. Saying my truth each moment. Learning to say "yes" when needed and "no" when needed.
And saying "NO" is sometimes a big "yes" to my Self as much as the Other. Similarily, some "YES" will happen to be big "NOs" and become a burden.
The truth and the answer always springs from the Heart. Either we listen, or we play the deaf.