I have followed this forum for years now without posting much and have appreciated the depth here and sincerity, I have practiced various techniques as well as had numerous spontaneous experiences and I am grateful for all.
I have gotten to a point with a certain practice which is on a different level than some previous practices. For years i have practiced and observed tantric disciplines, holding back and such, with or without a partner of course there are many variations of this.
The point that seems to define the new level is the following. by laying flat and relaxing while gently stroking up through the center of the body from the belly up and eventually to the nipples.It seems like the yin and yang energies come together in a gigantic way and it is pre- ejaculatory in all its glory, in fact if I happen to go down to the usual area that the male prefers to stimulate it pretty much completely interferes with the ecstasy that the other method produces.
In a book that I have had for many years and treasure ( Devatma Shakti ) the author refers to making both forces male and female strong enough that they unite in the yogi or yogini's body thereby creating soma.
Tibetan esoteric tantric practice also refers to a similar process.
I share this as the movement away from the usual polarized focus for men, I believe opens up a doorway to a greater understanding of the human body and can with the right attitude provide a powerful trigger for empowering the other polarity and magnetizing it for evolution.
Of course this alone is not sufficient for enlightenment but as a tantric method it is worth exploring A note of caution the pleasure is so great potentially and as endless as you have time for that, moderation and pacing are imperative