Do you believe in instincts?You know, something like when you begin to ask a certain matter if it can be good for you or not.
I'm in a relationship for more than 1 year now and been meditating prior to that.
But eversince we were just in a 'boyfriend-girlfriend' ways, i already had this feeling that our relationship is not good or harmonious.For instance,oftenly when i used to visit her,im always happy and been always trying to bring zest and humor to both of us.But then,we oftenly end up quarelling..And evytime i reflected for my mistake,i can be pretty sure that there is none.
Why is this so?
I even started praying and asking for guidance if our relatinship can be good for us or not.And to tell you,i'm now in verge of confusion,cause sometimes i just let that thoughts go but then it sometimes-to-often come again and again.
hum... idk man... if zest and humor are "called" for then bring it... be receptive to her words feelings etc etc... if she is being playful then zest and humor might be called for. If shes angry and you are fighting/arguing/whatever... you be calm and listen to her... lol just because one is yelling/arguing doesnt mean the other has to be.
instincts
Posted - Sep 09 2009 : 10:56:46 PM
